I was hoping to see you post. Ive came across some of your replies during my endeavor and theyve always been substantial and helpful.
Kudos for that.
the 5000 is conservative. Its sustained for sure. I pay for 50 megabit upload but ive never seen less than 54megabit. the 5000 is to leave some overhead and is in kibibyte which is what qbittorrent uses i believe. I did all the conversion crap to make sure I was leaving headroom etc. It comes out to 41 megabit i believe. Probably too conservative but thats neither here nor there. I can always bump it up later. At current im struggling to get any connections or uploading going at all, and when I do - its abysmally slow. Better on public trackers but thats par i imagine.
I am using the 64bit qbittorrent with plenty of ram to spare, I did change some of the advanced settings which left my torrents rechecking every time i closed and opened the client. It caused me exceptional grief as the larger torrents took ages to recheck. I set it all back to default and it hasnt presented itself whereas before it was every time I closed and re-opened, even when I waited for it to disappear from task manager.
I do have Upnp off as well as dht/lpd/pex (its my understanding public trackers can give grief for the aforementioned). I did turn off the country/favicons as I noticed your having suggested in another thread
I dont deal with multi tracker torrents very often. Only when i public torrent and thats very infrequent. I will try forcing tcp and see if theres any difference.
You hit the nail on the head as far as service provider goes. Its the best we have here for now

Ive actually never had a speed issue on the upload side. Download can struggle, ive seen it as low as ~750 but the highest ive ever seen was mid 900s. Is what it is over cable I suppose, wish more upload was available, its a waiting game
I assume I should leave encryption on prefer? And the rest of my settings as far as connection limits look ok then? When im lucky enough to have someone connect, the speed is usually pretty low, what would i adjust to give more per connection?
download is okay, always has been. Id even give up a tad for better upload. As you mentioned, on private trackers download speed is substantial.
Thank you for your time and help